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Wordy Wednesday

Hey hey! It’s currently Tuesday night and I’ve got just a few minutes to blog before I have to get Merritt off the couch (she and Dustin fell asleep sitting up on the couch and I’m not waking anyone up yet LOL)–so this post is going to be random thoughts for your Wednesday!!!

-Dustin asked me to make a Christmas list for him, so I started working on that. I plan on doing a post–maybe for Monday!!–sharing a few of my wishlist items because I always love seeing other people’s lists. I can usually get inspiration from other people’s wishlists. What are some things you want for Christmas?

I finished watching this movie yesterday while Merritt was napping and it was so cute! I love Candace Cameron Bure and her daughter was in this movie, too. She played Candace’s grandmother after she time traveled back to 1945 to her grandmother’s store. It’s on Great American Family, so if you have Youtube TV, you now get that channel, or you can subscribe to FrndlyTV for access! I love watching Great American over the Hallmark Channel now.

-Body image is such a strange thing. This isn’t going to be super long because I will do a post on this at some other time, but before I had my blog, I started dieting right after I graduated college and over the course of two years, lost 60 lbs. I kept that off for many years (maybe about 10) but once I started fertility medicine, the weight started to creep back on. After Merritt was born, I worked really hard to lose weight and it took about a year to lose the baby weight, but then I had all that extra weight to lose that I had gained over the course of 9ish years. Anyway, I’ve slowly been losing since June and now I’m down about 35 lb. Of course I can tell in my clothes because I’m now fitting back into some of my old clothes I had kept, but then I look at pictures of myself and I can’t tell–isn’t it so strange how it takes a while for our brains to catch up? I thought I’d share in case anyone else have ever been in that same boat and knows how I’m feeling.

-I think it’s time that I upgraded my kindle. It’s VERY old, so I’ve looked at the paperwhites and think that’s what I’m going to go with. So if you have one, do you like it or wish you had something different?

Okay, it’s bedtime! Merritt is now sleeping next to me, and I am looking forward to her recovering from HFM so she can sleep back in her own bed 🙂

Friday Favorites!

Happy Friday from the shortest week! Monday was a virtual day for our students which meant it was a work day for teachers–while I went to school to work and sit in meetings, I didn’t have to talk much LOL. We were all off Tuesday for Veterans Day, so this really has felt like a 3 day week…..and we’re getting closer to Thanksgiving Break!!!

As always, today I’m sharing a few FAVORITES!!!

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My sister took family pictures for our Christmas card last weekend. We took them in her yard and the colors were pure magic! If you’re in north Alabama (or even central!), she’s a great photographer! This was one of my favorite more casual pictures–it’s so fun!

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I’ve got two books that I finished recently that I really liked and both were so different from one another.

My book club read The Academy and we had very mixed reviews. Some didn’t like it because they didn’t feel like it had a plot. Others (me included) loved it because it was filled with drama that we weren’t part of LOL! This is a boarding school novel, and I found the boarding school life so fascinating. Elin’s son and then daughter attended boarding school, and she decided to write this story after her daughter kept calling her and filling her in on all the drama happening at her own school. There is a part two coming next year, so there are some unanswered questions.

I just finished The Boomerang last night and WOW!! It was my first Robert Bailey book to read. He’s a Huntsville, AL, lawyer turned author and the review I read of this book that prompted me to read it compared him as John Grisham meets Yellowstone–sold! It was a really good read and it centered on there really being a cure for cancer, but the US government (DOD) kept it secret. You’ve got to read it–I was hooked from the beginning. **It’s free on Kindle if you have a Prime membership!!

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Terrible picture of me, but Banks came to visit me yesterday at school!!! He and my mom spent the day together and they brought me a coffee on their way home. My students loved Banks visiting 🙂

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Tuesday, the kids and I went to Home Depot to look at their Christmas decorations. They were amazing! We all (me included haha) were so enthralled with the animatronics. If you haven’t been to Home Depot yet, you. need to make a stop. Harrison is also standing in front of the Christmas tree I told Dustin I wanted haha!

Have a great Friday!!

World Adoption Day

Happy Monday! Yesterday was World Adoption Day, and while it’s not a day that some even know exist, it’s a day that means a whole lot to me.

Last night Dustin and I (but really Dustin 🙂 ) spoke at church alongside two other adoptive families sharing our heart for adoption.

I would’t be a mom if it weren’t for the selfless love of another woman who gave me the gift of hearing “Momma” for the very first time. The selfless love of another woman fulfilled my dream of being a mom to more than one baby, and she gave Harrison a little brother.

I was listening to a podcast last night on the sovereignty of God in the midst of suffering. It made me think about something Dustin mentioned last night when he was talking to our church–because of God’s sovereignty over all, He knew from the very beginning that the boys would be part of our family. He also knew that Merritt would be a major surprise to our family ha! I look at my children and I see a picture of what Heaven will look like one day–believers of all colors as one family.

I look at my boys and think a lot about their births and how they joined our family. Both boys were adopted in Texas through the same agency, but both experiences were totally different. I’m grateful to their birth moms for choosing life and for choosing Dustin and I to be their parents. Those ladies changed my life for the better.

If you’re new, then you can search adoption on my blog and you can go back and read my old posts about our adoption journey! If you or anyone you know are interested in pursuing adoption, I’d love to share my story (not my boys’) and hopefully encourage someone to adopt!